I spent the majority of my spring break in Orlando, Florida (the weather was really nice, thanks for asking! =) ), including a total of two very long days of driving with my friends.
Before we left, I prepared myself and assumed that a 17+ hour drive from Illinois to Florida would include a lot of uncomfortable sleep, countless bathroom breaks and an SUV floor scattered with snack crumbs and empty water bottles – which it did.
With nothing else to do on the long drive, my friends and I brought up very random topics to talk about, including one that – surprisingly – revolved around the misuse of certain words, which explains why I’m even talking about my spring break in the first place.
About halfway into the drive (which is about 10 hours), one of my friends asked if it was going to rain at all during the time we’d be in Florida. My other friend answered with “supposably”. It took me a few seconds to realize what he had said, but I gave him the benefit-of-the-doubt, assumed I had heard wrong and kept my mouth shut.
But, as the drive continued, that same friend kept using “supposably”. I got so irritated that I corrected him as nicely as possible – I hope – which then started a five-minute argument about whether “supposably” was even a word .
We didn’t have access to internet until we got to Florida to check who was right, so the conversation moved to other words people misused on a daily basis (such as who/whom, beside/besides, etc.).
The conversation amused me for several reasons:
Part of me couldn't believe that we were talking about grammar on our trip down to Florida, but a bigger part of me felt that we should have had that conversation sooner.
The English language is a tricky thing, and it's understandable why so many words are misused. I believe ignorance and laziness are both to blame. While some people simply don't know the difference between certain words and when to use them properly in a sentence, I feel that a lot of people are just too lazy to find out the correct uses.
While this may not seem like a problem to many, I worry that a time will come when journalists, copy editors and editors alike will also become too ignorant/lazy to use the proper form of a word in sentences.
If we all make an effort to practice proper grammar now, hopefully that won't happen.
Oh, and for anyone who was wondering, "
supposably" is not a word.